Facebook Dating Secrets - How to meet women on Facebook

I'm no expert or guru of dating, I'm just a guy every day and to live a normal life that has transformed his life, dating and dating women have a lot of success. Over the last two years I've seen Myspace transform my social life and many others. Now Facebook has produced an exceptional opportunity ideal for any medium to meet the incredible women who have never had the chance to meet earlier.

First I am going to tell you why Facebook has this tremendous opportunity for you and then I'm going to tell you how. It 's important not to skip this section because in this case to see why it can be equally if not more important than the how. Given that over 60% of Facebook users are women, let me try and understand why this is the case and why it is crucial for understanding.

Why do women love social networking sites? Back in the old days when we used to live in tribes of about 100 men, people used to rely on for survival of their family. The women and their children depended on their man to provide for and protect them, a man without a woman and her family usually die. There were no social services in those days. Men have developed a strong independence as they had to depend on themselves for their own survival and the survival of their offspring.

The men that were abundant in wealth can provide for their family and were seen as attractive as are the men who had great strength and fitness that can protect their families. Men who have had the leadership and dominance were seen as attractive as they had the power to lead others and provide and protect their families so men who possessed these skills also found it easy to attract a female partner.

Women on the other had a different set of qualities that are developed to increase the likelihood of their survival and that of the family. This can best be described as having great communication skills. Women depended on maintaining a good relationship with their man for their survival as a loss would mean certain death. They also had to master the art of communication with their children and families. Over thousands of years, these features have already been wired into our brains so that men and women excel at certain skills.

Today women can fend for themselves, they can easily find a job and with their own food and resources, are not dependent on men for survival. Great skill of today's women is that most need to learn if they are to survive in the modern world. Learning to communicate effectively is the key to surviving and thriving men in the modern world. There is no point in holding a billion dollar or technology company to be as big, strong man in the gym if you can communicate effectively with a woman so that she stays around. Women should not wait for the men in these days so communication is vital to attract and retain women.

Today, people still live in tribes, except to go with a different name, are called called social networks today. The networks have a great influence on our daily lives, the larger more powerful networks that can control an entire city, country or even an entire region. The advertising and media companies that now comprise a majority of female employees to communicate with us on a daily basis whether we like it or not. Communication is the key to survive and prosper in the modern era.

In a nutshell what we teach men is the Attraction and communication skills you need to know to build their social network and attract more of the type of women who want to meet. The great news is that you can do very quickly in a matter of days sometimes as your success building a strong network in the building will often snowballs even more. Traditionally only the boys that women were naturally attracted to a young age or have been surrounded by women in higher education has developed the best communication skills and the larger social network.

The reason why I support the development of skills to meet women on the skills base of social networking is that it is actually much simpler. People who are in your social circle generally assume that they are a bit 'similar, like minded people, as they usually spend their time together. If you go to a party full of millionaires and beautiful women are going to assume you're a millionaire who attracts beautiful women, even if it is broke. If you go to a party full of poor students and arts are going to assume you're a poor student arts, even if you're a millionaire. This works to your advantage, because there is already a relationship there because supposedly there is in the same social circle. All you have to do now is to get an attraction allows to talk about how to do it on Facebook.

Introducing the method SCAN

Research is the first step in your quest to meet an attractive woman in your social circle. Now lets assume you have 100 friends on Facebook know that all who do not know about 20 and 20 that these people know other people who do not know. The application of the principle of six degrees of separation I am going to take your social network from five to six chains of the range before losing the connection. If you do the math you will soon realize they have more people than you think in your extended network. I find it best not to approach the new women in my social circle do not know if I'm single because I do not want to trouble my social circle.

So, for example, if I click on the profile of my friend John, click View then find friends Sophie, who is quite attractive, and you can view your friends this is the degree of separation that I'm looking for. Close enough to be in touch and still have not shared yet close enough to upset any of the males in my circle friend who might be flirting with attractive woman. This is important because you do not want men and women in your social circle who are working against you, you want them to work alongside you to speak up and help out.

Connect is the next step after finding that few women are a friend of a friend, then you want to get in touch with them by sending messages. Be careful not to hit or add as a friend until he connected with them. There is a big difference between contact with a woman online and really connect with her. Do you respond to your message? Then when you made a connection.

I've noticed since I started to spy on other kids that my "competition" I usually do two things wrong. They only write a line or two and make it generic and she does not answer, because the guy is a stranger, and not offer anything interesting about him. Some guys make the mistake of writing off so much that telegraphs interest too, and turns off the woman. Each way can be like a cancer for women success of its online meeting.

Here's a tip, write 8-12 lines or 2-3 paragraphs at most, then you should try and reduce to 5-8 lines cutting the fluff and make your words more powerful and more meaningful. We want to make sure you include a call to action in every email you send to a woman who brings them both to take the first step. Just make sure you take one step at a time for not telegraphing interest too much or put too much pressure on the woman in the foreground. The first call to action might be to simply mail it back, the second may be to ask her IM or phone number, the third would be to talk to her on the phone and the fourth to meet with her, etc.

Attract is the next thing you need to make sure you are doing. Use an emotional language in your writing also appeal to a woman, make her excited to meet her. Make sure you have a great way to make sure that answers your email. It's not that hard because most boys titles are so bad, who try to use the name in the title that will increase your response dramatically. I have already mentioned some of the indicators of male fitness in this article so now I want to think about how you can apply it to your profile.

Negotiating is the next step, it is necessary to negotiate and talk on the phone to go on a date or at a party together. You are the one who is responsible for this part of the procedure, you're the man who must take the initiative. Make sure you've already decided where you want to take his first talk with her on the phone, make it informal and relaxed so that appeals to her. She is single and looking to meet someone, but she does not want a guy who is all about you. She has had her interest and built some attraction so now you must add logic to give a rationalization for the meeting with you or get physical with her. I'm not saying that his need to sell the idea, I'm just saying it's necessary to indicate the next step so it makes sense in line with what is already thinking. Trying saying something like "hey you seem a very interesting person, can respond to this party / bar I'm going to be Friday night and see if we get along."

Facebook is a great opportunity to meet lots of women, without fear of rejection, if you follow these simple steps. With just under a million more women than men on Facebook in the U.S. alone, and similar figures in the world this really is a great opportunity for you to take advantage .......