We love what was

We love what was in the beginning but not necessarily remain in the present.

Many people who consult me ​​in therapy repeatedly mentioned the phrase "My partner does not treat me so well as before. However, I still love him as always."

Statement that prompts me to ask Do you think that by continuing to love him (a) as always reborn in his / her love? Your sacrifice will return those feelings remain perished over time?

We are trying to regain the love dissipates lifeguards performing actions such as: fussed over the couple, asking what I miss, crying and even begging.

Do not generalize, I understand that there are loves that last many years and are transformed over time, ie mature.

I mean those feelings vanished in one partner but continued in the other.

¿We deny what seems imminent as the end of a relationship?

Both men and women want to believe that love and interest did not end because if so, would have to deal with:

The collapse of expectations raised with the company pareja.La farewell and welcome to the fear of soledad.Tener soltería.El to restructure life without pareja.Temor pareja.Nos not cling to find another deal with the pain not .

When you release the relationships in time, prolong wear causes both physical and emotional. And the more we deny the impending rupture will deteriorate over the relationship between the two.

In any number of circumstances the person you wish to end the relationship refrains for fear of hurting the other and thus change their behavior and through that their wishes silent.

Of course, in my thinking I am considering a period of stress, reconciling differences and finding solutions to problems manifested in the relationship. This period also has a positive effect and being unproductive and reconcilatorios or rupture.

The hope is to continue with what we want but certainly if one of the parties and do not want to be in the relationship dynamic compensation and negatively affects the couple.

People move in and out of your life some will accompany you for a while and others will stay for a while.

Fear not release the love that was ...